First and foremost, if you are concentrating on free internet dating sites to meet Philippine Girls do not complain to much because as the old saying goes: you get what you pay for and your not paying anything. So get serious!
There are many sites that have hundreds and hundreds of pretty Philippine girls listed. The chances that you will successfully meet them and developing a successful relationship is not good especially if she is attractive. The reason being, there are also many men pursuing her, also unless you plan to make the trip to meet them in person quickly, the chances are you will lose out to another man who arrives to meet her before you do. Remember, it is the women that are doing the picking and choosing for the most part and not you. This is one of the big advantages with live introductions and not internet dating, you are right there in front of her. You can chat and talk over the phone all you want, but the live meeting is what wins their heart and for her to win yours.
Many of you that are here reading this page have found when using other sites with different methods for meeting women, like Philippine girls. It can be very frustrating weeding out the the sincere girls from the ones that are there to scam and just not serious. What is even worse, when you finally think the girls are on the up and up, she does something like ask you for money that lets you know she is not what you thought. We have heard all the stories from men that are devastated thinking they were in love and a girl either takes their money and disappears or just disappears. It also happens if you do not send them money as they will move on to greener pastures. Also be prepared for all kinds of stories, someone in her family is sick, her Grandma needs a sex change operation, you name it! Almost as bad as that, she may simply disappear with no warning or you get the Dear John goodbye…! This is what happens with the chat rooms when you are chatting with not just Philippine girls, but women from other countries as well, including other Asian countries. Countries like the Philippines that are 3rd world developing countries are always going to have people trying to make money by unscrupulous means. Heck, even in the most powerful and richest country since Imperial Rome, the United States we have people doing the same thing, scamming people! What one must do is to avoid placing yourself and setting yourself up in the situation to be scammed. The vast majority of women in the Philippines are honest and decent so do not settle for less. There is a vast array of Filipino bride, marriage, internet dating and chat sites on the net so you will have your work cut out for you.
I myself along with my wife have observed Philippine girls in the net cafes chatting away with several windows open on Yahoo messenger to different men and all of the men probably think she is only chatting with him! Not true guys, sorry. The vast majority of the girls chatting are not just chatting with you. Even if they are not scamming, but are serious they are still looking for the man that interests them the most. I am not saying this is wrong as we all look for the one that seems best for us. I am just letting you know that chances are it is not just you and you only she is chatting with, but other men also. There are thousands and thousand of men out there chatting away. Please remember this: any decent Philippine girl will never ask you for money no matter if she needs it to continue chatting with you or not. If she can afford to chat with you being in an Internet Cafe she is not that bad off. The Internet Cafe’s in the Philippines have come way down in price for sure. The average price per hour being about 30 Peso or about .60 cents. There are many Internet Cafe’s even cheaper at: 15 to 20 Pesos per hour. To many of you guys are just to willing to open your wallets and you can not buy love. That is the bottom line.
Another sign to watch out for is women who claim they are in love with you after a few chat sessions on internet dating sites. That is nonsense on her part and if I have to explain to you why, than I give up! Also I must mention, there are many silly men on the chat sites also, who’s thrill is to talk dirty to the women, ask for a flash of their private parts and so on. So, it can be a two way street. We are not saying you can not meet decent girls on the other sites, but be prepared for what we stated above and mostly to invest a lot and I mean a lot of time. You certainly do not want to fly all the way to the Philippines to meet one or only a few women. You also do not want to be flying all over the islands meeting your chat mates because you will be eating up your time and wasting it on traveling. This is why there is so much of an advantage to taking a tour to meet single Philippine girls. When you take a tour with us, all the women are from Cebu City and the outlying areas close to Cebu City and we pay for their transportation to meet you.