We would like to point out before you read any further on this page, that there are many so called experts trying to sell their E books online as well as articles on the net pointing out warning about marrying Filipina women. One Author stating almost 70% of the Philippine women marrying American men have scammed these men! There are certainly Asian women not only in the Philippines but other countries as well that do not have sincere intentions when they make themselves available on dating sites or introduction sites. One must remember that 3rd world countries have much fewer opportunities for deriving decent income and finding decent jobs for their people. So obviously there are going to be the unscrupulous people portraying themselves to be not what they truly are. Is this so hard to understand? There is nothing wrong with warning men to be diligent and careful with their pursuit of women from foreign countries as we will be the first to agree, however from what we have read, many of these articles and E books are nonsense.
How many of you know, that the divorce rate of Filipina American marriages are less than 10% compared to the over 50% of domestic American marriages! Many of these E book authors are just trying to make money. There are men who have had less than successful marriages with Asian and Filipina women and they want to blame this on everyone or anything, but their own lack of prudence before they commit themselves to any particular women. Many men look at these beautiful women and do not look beyond the physical appearance which is not the smart thing to do. The Philippines no doubt probably has some of the most beautiful women in the world and certainly in Asia and one may just get so caught up in the beauty of the Filipina women. A man must look beyond the physical appearance of a woman. In all the years in this business, we have never received a horror story from one of our male clients.
Philippine women and Asian women as a whole are somewhat shy women when meeting people and this is even more true when she meets a foreigner, especially a foreigner that is a man. This is just the way the Filipina women are as all women of Asian backgrounds. As for women from the Philippines, they may be a bit more open at first than Asian women from countries such as Thailand or Japan for instance. The reason for this is that the Philippines has a long history of western influence. The Spanish being their colonizers from the early 1500’s until the turn of the last century when America defeated the Spanish in the Spanish American war of 1898.
The Americans ruled the Philippines until 1946 when independence was granted to the Filipinos. America brought the English language to the Philippines as well as many other cultural injections as well as western and American ways of doing things. Through all this, the Filipino to their credit have never lost their identity and their uniqueness as a race. They have qualities that other Asian women simply do not have. One must remember that The Philippines has been a Christan nation since the Spanish arrived hundreds of years ago. No other nation in Asia has a Christan population as large as does the Philippines. About 88% of the people in the Philippines are of the Christan faith. The Philippines is also the 2nd largest English speaking country in the world after the U S A. Most, Filipinos are bilingual, speaking at least some English along with their native Philippine dialects. This English language ability is one reason and an important reason why Philippine women as well as Filipinos in general are much more able to communicate with foreigners compared to the people from other Asian countries. This ability allows them to be much more open and receptive when meeting people from other countries unlike the people of other Asian nations. This is even more important when a women from an Asian country is meeting or being introduced to a man. Asians many times will feel very insecure or even embarrassed if they can not speak English well or not at all. English is the international language & they know it. Filipina women are also much more familiar with western ways and lifestyles that you will find in any other Asian country. Remember, American has had & still has much influence in the Philippines. You can even find the American flag on the Philippine 100 Peso bill. This attests to the close ties the two nations have had in the past and present. Philippine women, more so than any other Asian women are much less materialistic than their other Asian counterparts and even more so compared to western women.
As with most Asian women, Philippine women are shy especially at first, but they quickly break out of their shell. Philippine women will take what you say quite seriously so be sure to say what you really mean not what you think they want you to say. Their basic nature is humble, not demanding and unassuming. When you first meet these women you will immediately notice the stark contrast to American or western women. Usually, no matter how attractive she may be, her attitude and demeanor will be that of a modest individual which is a refreshing change from what most men are use to back home. One thing we must say here, although one should not be primarily concerned with how attractive a lady looks, Filipina women are without a doubt the most attractive of all Asian women.
I am sure many men are concerned that these women may be motivated simply and mostly by economic improvement to their lives or supporting their families and that is their main interest in marrying an American or other western man. OK, lets speak frankly here: There is noting wrong with a women wanting to marry into a life that will be a good life and not a poor one, plain and simple. This also does not mean that they do not want to fall in love and be loved. Women the world over want security just as men do and that is all there is to it. In all the years we have been providing this service we never had one man ever tell us that the Filipina women he choose had deceived him. However there are many men that have been deceived. Women members in our Philippine dating service are told from the outset if their motivation is mostly monetary than they are not welcome. These other men have usually met those kind of undesirable women in all the wrong places like bikini bars, strolling malls and on dating sites. You must not get yourself in trapped in a woman’s physical beauty alone and not take notice of her other traits and the compatibility of the both of you. Many, many men do get trapped as we just described. All to often men are much to driven by the desire to marry a beautiful young wife from Asia. Physical attraction is important yes, just balance your priorities in a realistic way. This can save you much disappointment in the future.
Do not search for a Filipina women based more on her looks than on her spirit and marry for love.
More American and western single men than ever before are traveling to Asia to look for a special women in his life, but why? Are western men being turned off by western women? More like western women are turning the men off. Many men complain that western women are being driven toward a possible male partner with too high a priority on his net worth and income. Again, there is nothing wrong with a person looking for a responsible partner than can help provide a decent standard of living, but from what men in western countries such as the United States are saying is, Asian women in their prospective countries are simply choosing to marry men with the most money and the love part of the relationship comes second. We also hear of many men complaining that when they are on a date they feel like they are with a buddy rather than a feminine women as the romance is not there. To many American men it seems, that many American women feel that for them to be equals in society, the work place or to have careers, it means they have to act more like men and loose many of their feminine qualities that makes them women. We are also not saying that all western and American women are all unappealing, but they certainly are not the women of yesteryear! Asian and Philippine women seem to have no problem keeping their feminine qualities no matter how successful they may have become in their lives.
The women you will meet with our service are for the most part, well educated and have jobs. They are not simple uneducated girls from the countryside. Many are college grads and have had some college & are not naive uninformed women that many have stereo typed them to be. Where has this stereo typing come from? It has come from the uniformed, ignorant media and especially feminists and woman’s organizations in the west. The later is just furious with so many western and especially American men turning to Asian women and especially Philippine women to find a compatible partner.
It is not only men of the western nations that are the ones initiating contact as women from all of Asia like the Philippine women are equally or even more so looking to meet men from western countries Such as Americans and Australians as a future partner and why? The world has become quite small and these Asian women are now only too aware that they no longer have to walk behind the man in a subservient manor. What we mean here is, not just in a literal manor the Asian woman’s back seat status, but in general how she is viewed by men in their own countries. Asian women in general feel that western men view them and treat them in a much more respectable manor. Many Asian women and even more so for Filipina women, just find Western men more appealing across the board so to speak.